Finding My North Star: Redefining the End Goal



For over three decades, my world revolved around the IT industry. I started with the thrill of software development, then navigated through the intricate lanes of IT support, license management, and vendor management, I gained skills, respect, and recognition. But along the way, something quieter kept knocking at the edges of my awareness: Was I leaving something behind?

Now, with more than 30 years of experience and retirement softly visible on the horizon, I find myself not driven by what I can do next—but by what I want to feel next.

I’ve long promised myself that at 55, I’ll gently set this phase of life down. Though I could stretch my career to 60, I know my heart is seeking something else: time. Time with my family—the warmth I’ve missed while racing between deadlines. Time to rediscover myself—not as a title or role, but as a person who once dreamed of strumming melodies on a guitar, who finds beauty in books, and who sees art in a bird taking flight.

Maybe I’ll take my camera into the wild and learn to witness stillness. Maybe I’ll ride on Cycling Sundays not just for health, but for freedom—the kind you feel when the breeze tells you you're exactly where you're meant to be.

One dream has stayed tender in my heart: a quiet retreat in the countryside. A simple home nestled in greenery, where I can tend to cultivation not for profit, but for peace. Where the soil grounds me and silence speaks volumes. A place where I can reflect, celebrate my journey, and honor the pride I feel watching my only son forge his own path.

What should my end goal be?
It isn’t a title or accolade. It’s not even a finish line. It’s a return—to joy, to presence, to the things that matter when you’re no longer counting hours but moments.

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Congratulations, you've officially unlocked adulthood! Use it wisely… or at least have fun trying!

Dear Son — Today marks an incredible milestone — 21 years of life, growth, and endless potential. As you step into adulthood, I want you to know how deeply proud I am of the person you’ve become.

From the little boy who once held my hand with unwavering trust to the young man standing strong in his own right—you’ve amazed me every step of the way. Life will bring challenges, but always remember that you have the strength, wisdom, and heart to navigate through anything.

Dream fearlessly, love wholeheartedly, and never stop chasing what sets your soul on fire. Whatever comes your way, know that I will always be here—cheering for you, guiding you when needed, and celebrating every success.

Happy 21st birthday, My Son. This is your time to shine!

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Happy Birthday My Son !

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There will come a day
When you will get wings of your own
You will start seeing life’s realities
In a way that you had never known
The worlds is a nasty place, my son
But you can make it better
Don’t succumb to the negativity
Instead, just keep flying higher
Rise above and show how it’s done.
Because no matter what you do
For me, You will always be number one……
Happy Birthday My Son !!!

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Life in four photos. Meaningful

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Maori Tattoo Is Unique

Maori-TatooThe Maori are an indigenous Polynesian people found in New Zealand. They have a form of body art, known as moko, more commonly known as Maori tattooing. The art form was brought by the Maori from Polynesia. This art is considered highly sacred, and continues to be highly revered.

Since the Maori consider the head to be the most sacred part of the body, the most popular kind of Maori tattoo was the facial tattoo, which was composed of curved shapes and spiral patterns. It often covered the whole of the face, and was a symbol of rank, social status power, and prestige.

The Maori tattoo is one of a kind, and no two tattoos are alike. It is highly intricate and detailed, which displays the craftsmanship and artistry of the Maori culture.

For the Maori, tattooing was a rite of passage, which meant it was highly ritualized. Maori tattooing would usually begin during adolescence, and would be continually performed to celebrate important events throughout a person’s life.

The Maori ‘tattoo artist’ is called the tohunga-ta-moko, which means moko specialist. These tattooists are highly respected, and considered tapu, inviolable and holy. Tohunga-ta-moko are mostly men, but there are also some women who take up the practice.

Maori Tattoo Is Complex

Maori tattoo did not involve the use of needles. Rather, the Maori used knives and chisels made from shark’s teeth, sharpened bone, or sharp stones. The chisel, also called the uhi, is made from albatross bone, although some chisels are said to be made of iron. Knives and chisels were either plain and smooth, or serrated, and these were used interchangeably depending on the intended pattern.

The inks that were employed to do a Maori tattoo were made from natural products. Burnt wood was used to create black pigments, while lighter pigments were derived from caterpillars infested with a certain type of fungus, or from burnt Kauri gum mixed with animal fat. The pigment was stored in ornate containers called oko, which became family heirlooms. Oko are often buried when not in use.

The black pigment made from burnt wood was reserved for facial tattoos, while those made from the caterpillars or burnt Kauri gum were used for outlines and other less important tattoos. Before beginning, the tohunga-ta-oko would study the person’s facial structure to decide on the most appealing design. No two tattoos are alike.

Maori Tattoo Is A Challenging Pain

Having a Maori tattoo was a very painful one, and was done by first incising deep cuts into the skin. The chisel is dipped into the pigment and tapped into the cuts. Another process involved dipping the chisel into the jar of pigment and inserting it into the skin by striking the end with a mallet. This manner of tattooing leaves the skin with grooves after healing, instead of the usual smooth surface found in needle-point tattoos.

Maori tattoo was a long and labor-intensive process. Because it was very painful, only a few parts of the body were tattooed at a time to allow for healing. There are two designs for the Maori tattoos: The normal design only involved the blackening of the lines. The second called for blackening the background and leaving the lines clear – this was called puhoro. Maori tattooing often done during the winter seasons.

Maori Tattoo Is Sacred

Due to the sacred nature of the Maori tattoo, those who were undergoing the process, and those involved in the process, could not eat with their hands or talk to anyone aside from other people being tattooed. Those who were receiving the tattoos made it a point to not cry out from the pain, because to do so would be a sign of cowardice. Being able to withstand the pain was also an issue of pride among the Maori.

Prohibitions, especially for the facial tattoos, often involved abstinence from sexual intimacy while undergoing the rite, and abstaining from solid food. In order to meet these requirements, the person receiving a facial tattoo was fed from a wooden funnel to prevent foodstuffs from contaminating the swollen skin. A person would be fed in this manner until all the facial wounds healed.

The face would bleed and often swell up after a session so the leaves of the Karaka tree were often used as balms to hasten the healing process. The tattooing was often accompanied by music, singing, and chanting to help soothe the pain.

The main focus of Maori tattoo was mostly the face. Men have full facial tattoos, while women only tattoo their chin, lips, and nostrils. Some Maori also tattoo other parts of their body, such as the back, buttocks, and legs. Women are also known to tattoo their arms, neck, foreheads and thighs.

Maori Tattoo Is A Social Status

Only people or rank and status were allowed to have, and could afford to have, tattoos. A person who did not have any high-ranking social status, such as a slave, could not have a face tattoo. Those who had the means to get a tattoo but did not were seen as people of lower social status.

The Maori face tattoo was not only seen as a sign of rank, but was also used as a kind of identification card. For men, their face tattoo showed their accomplishments, status, position, ancestry, and marital status, among other things. It is considered highly insulting to be unable to recognize a person’s power and position by his moko.

The male facial moko or tattoo is generally divided into eight sections of the face:

The center of the forehead, called the Ngakaipikirau, designated a person’s general rank. The area around the brows, called Ngunga, designated his position. The area around the eyes and the nose, called the Uirere, designated his hapu, or sub-tribe rank. The area around the temples, called Uma, served to detail his marital status, like the number of marriages.

The area under the nose, known as Raurau displayed his signature. This signature was once memorized by tribal chiefs who used it when buying property, signing deeds, and officiating orders. The cheek area, called Taiohou, designated the nature of the person’s work. The chin area, called Wairua, showed the person’s mana or prestige. Lastly, the jaw area, or Taitoto, designated a person’s birth status.

A person’s ancestry is indicated on each side of the face. The left side is generally the father’s side, and the right side was the mother’s. Noble or high descent was a primary requirement before a moko was undertaken.

If one side of a person’s ancestry was not of rank, the corresponding side of the face would not have any design tattooed on it. And if the person undertaking the moko has no rank, or is not heir to any, the center of the forehead would have no design.

Maori Tattoos Is The Art

By the middle of the 19th century, full facial moko for men declined in frequency, but moko for women persisted throughout the 20th century. Since the 1990′s, the Maori tattoo has experienced a comeback, often being done with the use of modern tattoo machines.

Since tribal-pattern tattoos are growing in popularity, more and more non-Maori are copying original designs and incorporating it in their own art. Most of these modern-Maori tattoos use tattoo needles, rather than the traditional tools used for ta moko.

The Maori have revived the old methods of tattooing, in an effort to preserve their cultural heritage. Both men and women have now become more involved in the traditional practice. The art organization known as Te Uhi a Mataora was recently established by traditional Maori practitioners.

Te Uhi a Mataora envisions the retention and further development of Ta Moko as a living art form. Their main concern is the growing practice of ta moko by non-Maori. They strive to propagate the art-form by reviving old traditions and preserving original methods and designs. They also inform others that Maori tattooing is a cultural symbol, and should not be adopted lightly.

If you are a non-Maori who admires their tattoos and wants to have one done, it is advisable to seek out a Maori tattoo artist which sufficient knowledge in ta moko. He will be able to design a Maori patterned tattoo custom-made for you, without traditional patterns or symbolism exclusive only to the Maori.

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Speech by Chetan Bhagat at Symbiosis.

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Don’t just have career or academic goals. Set goals to give you a balanced, successful life. I use the word balanced before successful. Balanced means ensuring your health, relationships, mental peace are all in good order. There is no point of getting a promotion on the day of your breakup. There is no fun in driving a car if your back hurts. Shopping is not enjoyable if your mind is full of tensions.

"Life is one of those races in nursery school where you have to run with a marble in a spoon kept in your mouth. If the marble falls, there is no point coming first. Same is with life where health and relationships are the marble. Your striving is only worth it if there is harmony in your life. Else, you may achieve the success, but this spark, this feeling of being excited and alive, will start to die…

One thing about nurturing the spark - don't take life seriously. Life is not meant to be taken seriously, as we are really temporary here. We are like a pre-paid card with limited validity. If we are lucky, we may last another 50 years. And 50 years is just 2,500 weekends. Do we really need to get so worked up? …

It's ok, bunk a few classes, scoring low in couple of papers, goof up a few interviews, take leave from work, fall in love, little fights with your spouse. We are people, not programmed devices...”

"Don't be serious, be sincere."!!!

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Canon EF 70-300mm f/4-5.6 L IS USM

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Designed to deliver ultra-high quality images along with lightning fast operation, the new Canon EF 70-300 f/4-5.6L IS USM telephoto zoom lens brings a favorite zoom range to the celebrated Canon L-series of lenses. It features two Ultra Low Dispersion (UD) elements for improved image quality and reduced chromatic aberration, incorporates a floating focusing mechanism for sharpness from close up to infinity, plus an IS system that increases usability by approximately four stops. The Image Stabilization system also features a function that allows it to continue to operate, even when used on a rigid tripod. An optional Canon Tripod Mount C (W II) is available as an accessory, for balanced mounting on a tripod or monopod. Gleaming white on its exterior, the lens is dust- and water-resistant, and now also features a newly-developed Fluorine coating that resists smears and fingerprints, and significantly eases lens cleaning. For any serious and critical EOS user, this new L-series lens represents an excellent and portable solution to versatile telephoto lens shooting.

Specifications,

Focal Length & Maximum Aperture 70-300mm 1:4-5.6
Diagonal Angle of View 34° - 8° 15'
Focus Adjustment Lens extension via inner focusing and focus cam plus floating mechanism
Closest Focusing Distance 1.2m/ 3.9ft
Filter Size 67 mm dia., P=0.75 mm /1 filter
Max. Diameter x Length, Weight 3.5 x 5.6 in, 2.31 lbs. / 89 x 143mm, 1050g

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